The Book in short
People with ADHD og ADD are not sick. They are very sensitive and misunderstood by the surrounding society and the rest of us. We sicken both children and adults and label them with different diagnoses, because we do not know how else to deal with their different behaviour.
Children and adults with ADHD and ADD have very natural abilities and positive human qualities which others do not have, and from which we can all learn a lot. They are also very intelligent, and are on a higher level of development than other people.
Because we do not understand the children and adults with ADHD or ADD, they are stressed out and in a constant state of imbalance. That is why we see a lot of problems especially with the children, but also with adults getting into alcohol- or drug abuse to lower their inner unrest and stress.
It is the constant inner unrest and stress topped with the pressure from others that makes ADHD-children and adults lose their mind. Since they are also born with an innate code stating that humans are not allowed to decide for each other, every day life can become filled with conflicts.
Abilities others do not have
People with ADHD and ADD have these abilities, that others do not have:
Sensing and feeling others: They are very sensitive and senses what other people feel and think. Often they know what other people are going to say, before they have said anything.
Intuition: They act based on their intuition and feelings, unlike the rest of us who often act on our logical thinking in deciding what to do or not to do.
Being in the present moment: They always live in the present moment. Other people spend a lot of money on mindfulness, meditation and the like to achieve the same state of mind.
Contact to intuitive knowledge from a higher place: They have the ability to get information from a higher place. It is knowledge they just have which no one else have ever told them. Often they say “I just know” when asked how they know something.
People with ADHD and ADD think that everyone else can do the same as them. Because they do not understand the behaviour of others, they start thinking trying to figure out what is going on with other people. This happens from early childhood. But children will never be able to figure this out on their own, because it is so far from their own behaviour. This constant thinking continues into their adult life.
All the thoughts causes unrest and quivering inside the children and adults with ADHD or ADD, and this too creates the stress, imbalances and chaos of mind. Some sensitive people also confuses other peoples feelings with their own, and that increases the inner stress and unrest.
Imbalance leads to psychiatric diagnoses
The public health service often meets those with ADHD and ADD, when they are very imbalanced and stressed out, and that again leads to the diagnoses ADHD or ADD. The diagnoses are how the health care system describes a condition which is of course serious for the affected people. To the children the diagnoses often lead to attending a special school and special training to cope with the ADHD or ADD, and perhaps medication.
But as long as the basic cause “sensitivity” is not understood or recognized and thereby handled it will be difficult to change much, and often medication is the long term solution for a lot of people.
A new perspective on ADHD and ADD
We have written “The Book on ADHD & ADD - Sensitive children & adults” based upon the good experiences we have with helping people with ADHD and ADD at our treatment center LotusHealthCare.dk.
To us the high sensitivity is a strength and an unfulfilled potential - no matter if it is children or adults with ADHD and ADD. They are just very much out of balance and stressed out, and thus not able to live a balanced life.
We help them into a new understanding of themselves, and into understanding the abilities they have compared to other people. Often sensitive people have felt different and misunderstood their entire life, and then everything falls into place inside them, when they get a new understanding of themselves.
No matter age it is all about learning how to find peace inside oneself, and not have the inner sensors searching all over the place constantly. That way people with ADHD or ADD will be well-balanced, and the high sensitivity will no longer be a problem, but a tremendous strength to the individual, because a new understanding and a solid foundation is the base of a new life.
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